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Comment on Weaning a toddler while pregnant by Lori

Lori — Mon, 25 Oct 2010 18:09:56 +0000

Oh my goodness!

I am almost 6 months pregnant with my second child, and am STILL nursing my 2+ (27 month) old daughter. I love nursing.
I thought I would hate it, but it has been such a winderful bonding experience, part of me is so ready to let go, but the other half of me sees how much my daughter loves it, how fantastic it has been for her, and what comfort it has brought her in a time of turmoil (we\ve had some terrible marital problems – I did not want to discontnue nursing during it and really upset her).
But it is time for me to stop nursing, and prepare for my other baby.
Does anyone worry that there wont be enough or any milk for their second child?
Im 4 months away from my due date, but I get so nervous, that I am diminishing my supply now!

Comment on Weaning a toddler by Susan

Susan — Thu, 24 Jun 2010 23:45:19 +0000

I just posted a blog on weaning my 3-year old! It was difficult in many ways — but I think mostly because I didn’t want to let go of it.

If you would like to read my post, please go to http://www.mycharlottesweb.blogspot.com

I would love to hear comments!
Thanks,
Susan Compton
mama to 3-year old girl

Comment on Our Favorite Toys for Toddlers by Berchta

Berchta — Fri, 24 Jul 2009 20:46:35 +0000

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Comment on Weaning a toddler by playing pretend by nkd5

nkd5 — Thu, 04 Jun 2009 02:58:27 +0000

Hi OakvilleMoms,
I should mention that it took some time to break the pretend habit. I think it is a gentler way to wean, but it still took time to break the pretend habit too. I probably let him pretend to nurse for several months if not longer – but once the wonderful hormones (relaxin?) stopped flowing I had less patients and felt ready to reclaim my body (but also remember feeling very emotional and guilty too). Offering him water helped with weaning.

Of course all kids are different and may not readily pretend rather than get the real thing. My son loves the idea of pretending- so took to it quite well.
Nice website- some interesting products.
Nikki

Comment on Weaning a toddler by playing pretend by OakvilleMoms

OakvilleMoms — Thu, 04 Jun 2009 02:41:53 +0000

Thanks for sharing your story and your great idea of “pretending to nurse”. I will try it. I am trying to wean my 22 month old. I have been trying for the last couple of months. I have certainly cut down on the number of times throughout the day. Lately when he asks for milk I tell him I have no more. Sometimes it works other times he gets upset so I try to distract him and offer him regular milk or a snack. I also get my husband to give him his regular milk. I think I will also feel guilty when I do stop just as I did with my first son. I do feel proud that I have nursed this long. Nursing is a journey for both mother and child.

Comment on Weaning a toddler by playing pretend by Leah

Leah — Fri, 01 May 2009 08:05:23 +0000

Hello everyone, I want to reach out to the ladies with unsupportive spouses. My husband has been “making fun” of our 2-year-old when she wants to nurse. (She is currently a two timer … for nap and bedtime)
I find it very petty for men to give bfing mothers a hard time in this realm. Breastfeeding is an emotional experiance for toddlers, who are fast learning that they are their own individual. Men need to respect the space that bfing moms have created for children giving them a place to feel safe.
Since I have that out of the way … I would like to say that although I recognize my daughters need to breastfeed I would very much appreciate getting her down to bfing at nap only … or better yet wean. Any suggestions on bedtime weaning?

Comment on Weaning a toddler by catherine

catherine — Sun, 19 Apr 2009 06:27:21 +0000

I also found a great book for kids called learning to wean, it helped me start talking about weaning to my 2 1/2 year old, who use to get very upset at the thought of it. now at least he feels more comfortable with the idea. its not going to happen overnight , but we’re getting there

Comment on Harmful Chemicals in Baby wash and dish soap by Monique

Monique — Fri, 13 Mar 2009 03:50:34 +0000

I am in the organic food business. My husband and I had a baby 8 months ago and now we are passionately buying and trying out different organic eco-friendly baby products. We love burts bees, and have used them on our son. Recently I was asked to try the bentley organic baby line (website: http://www.bentleyorganic.com). I was really impressed.
Bentley Organic products are not tested by animals, do not contain petro-chemicals, GMOs, parabens, and are free from SLS or SLES. they are certified organic by the UK soil association which has extremely stringent organic standards. I believe that products that are made as close to what God intended them to be are best for my son. I have gone to a huge effort to eat organic – how counter-productive would it be if I was to plaster lotions on my skin and my son’s skin that are full or chemicals and ingredients sprayed with pesticides.

Comment on Weaning a toddler by stacey larocque

stacey larocque — Wed, 11 Mar 2009 18:39:07 +0000

I have only the best intentions to help Moms and Dads who have been gradually weaning their toddlers and are looking for that light at the end of the tunnel.
I have written an ebook that tells my own story, describing step-by-step, how other parents can wean their toddlers and preschoolers, who may still be very attached to a final nursing or nursing continuously but the parents are ready to wean.
If this sounds like you…if you are a frustrated parent looking for advice on how to lovingly wean your toddler from the breast, without trauma to you or your child, this will help. All the best.

Comment on Weaning a toddler by playing pretend by Sheena

Sheena — Mon, 09 Mar 2009 18:08:51 +0000

Hi, Nice to read your experience with weaning . I am currently weaning my 2 year old. We have been cutting down for awhile but recently he started waking up to feed alot more at night so I stopped this weekend. Today is my 3rd day with out feeding him. My breasts are very sore and today I am also doubting my decision. I feel very sad to let it go because we both like it so much. I also want him and us to go back to a regular sleeping schedule. so tough!

Comment on Weaning a toddler while pregnant by Alina

Alina — Thu, 05 Mar 2009 13:36:41 +0000

I am currently 5 weeks pregnant and nursing my 27 months old and it has so far been pretty easy to continue. I am so happy to see all of these wonderful mothers proud to be nursing.

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Comment on Weaning a toddler by Sarah

Sarah — Thu, 15 Jan 2009 18:03:31 +0000

Amanda, I think your decision to wean was a good one. If I could go back four months or so, I think I would choose your path rather than the one I did – which now has me nursing both a three year old and a three week old. I know I’m coming from a place where this is all very new and full of intense changes (and maybe in a week or a month I’ll feel better about it), but right now I’m feeling that if I could wean DS I’d do it in a heartbeat. But now he’s already feeling such competition with baby DD for mommy milk, I’m afraid actively weaning him will build resentment toward his sister. I really feel like I’m between a rock and a hard place.

Comment on Weaning a toddler by Karen

Karen — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 03:44:03 +0000

My daughter is 2 years and 4 months old, and she loves nursing. She would prefer to nurse all the time, and during the night-time, she basically still does. We co-slept until she was about 22 months old. We were happily surprised when she was excited to move into her own room, & into her own bed. The catch was, she has never slept without nursing, so I have had to either sleep with her in her room or go back and forth across the house all night long (usually 3-5 times, although after about 3 times I am so tired that I fall asleep and stay asleep in her room). We currently have moved her mattress into our room beside our bed, and are hoping this will encourage her to nurse less often.
This is SO much harder than I thought it would be! I love nursing, and so does she, but we are ready for a second child, and our nursing is still so frequent we haven’t been able to conceive.
I appreciate all the wisdom I have read from other moms, and would love to hear any more advice.

Comment on Our Favorite Toys for Toddlers by Alban Hersey

Alban Hersey — Mon, 12 Jan 2009 19:35:37 +0000

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Comment on Weaning a toddler by playing pretend by Nicole

Nicole — Mon, 12 Jan 2009 18:45:55 +0000

Thank you for sharing your stories. I am also trying to wean my 17 month old son – or at least get rid of the before bedtime feed and then lastly the morning feed. He has started waking up in the middle of the night crying “mommie” and when I pick him up he clearly wants the boob. I am trying to be consistant and rock him and give him cuddles instead. My problem is the opposite, my husband wants me to continue to nurse and comfort him, but I am tired, working full time and I want to ease off and end the nursing.

Comment on Weaning a toddler by playing pretend by Marit

Marit — Thu, 08 Jan 2009 02:30:08 +0000

Hi
Thank you for sharing your BRILLIANT idea! My son is 21 months old, and i was thinking of weaning him. Atleast no more night feeding.(he usually ends up in our bed) I am gonna try this. Honestly i don’t really wanna stop nursing him yet, but my husband is so against it! I feel stuck betwheen a rock and a hard place. I guess weaning is the only way to go..

Comment on Megabrat- “bearly” used winter clothes by Janine Passero

Janine Passero — Wed, 31 Dec 2008 02:25:02 +0000

Beth, I also filed a dispute with Paypal and did get my money back. The phone number on the website doesn’t work
and I never once received a response from any of the emails I sent them. Maybe at one time this was legit but I
would discourage anyone from purchasing from this website.
-Janine

Comment on Megabrat- “bearly” used winter clothes by rush5

rush5 — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 04:36:51 +0000

Beth – I was wondering how the turnout was with the paypal dispute. I purchased a bunch of snow bibs for my nieces and nephews, almost a month ago, hoping to receive them before Christmas. I’ve not received a thing, nor a response from him. If possible, please let me know how that went. This situation has forced me into making some last minute purchases right before Christmas – very frustrating…

Comment on Toxic sippy cups? by Jess

Jess — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 19:38:34 +0000

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Comment on Weaning a toddler by amanda

amanda — Mon, 10 Nov 2008 17:20:12 +0000

I have a 22 month old son and I am 6 1/2 months pregnant. I was still nursing him (and it hurt SO MUCH) up until Friday. I had managed to eliminate all sessions except for the one before his nap, and he is incredibly attached to this one time when I was willing to nurse. Part of me feels bad about ending this special bond that we have, especially when I know that it could be very difficult for him when the new baby enters our lives. There is another part of me that feels an urgent need to end the nursing so that he doesn’t associate being weaned with the arrival of the new baby and feel as if something was taken from him and given to the little “interloper”. I wouldn’t be surprised if a lot of women find themselves in this situation (though I don’t personally know any). Especially when you are dealing with the fatigue of pregnancy, it is difficult to find the energy to deal with a baby crying to be nursed.

Comment on Weaning a toddler while pregnant by organic mattresses

organic mattresses — Sun, 02 Nov 2008 02:30:12 +0000

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Comment on Klean Kanteen Coupon code- 20% off by MF

MF — Wed, 29 Oct 2008 23:16:11 +0000

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Comment on Megabrat- “bearly” used winter clothes by Beth Hendrickson

Beth Hendrickson — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 17:40:48 +0000

Like, Janine, I have made attempts to contact Cody(BOTH phone numbers listed and emails!)and still rec’d no response. It has been more that three weeks since I placed my order, yet the funds were immediately taken from my account. I understand that things can “happen” but it is important to communicate with your customer. Because I have found other posts from customers who have not rec’d the mdse.they paid for w/ Megabrat, I filed a dispute w/ paypal.
~Beth

Comment on Klean Kanteen Coupon code- 20% off by real green girl

real green girl — Sat, 25 Oct 2008 20:38:21 +0000

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and:http://realgreengirl.blogspot.com/2008/10/sigg-still-not-green-and-heres-why.html
Thank you and drink safely,
debby

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Comment on Cheapest prices on diapers we’ve found… by Sarah

Sarah — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 03:37:03 +0000

Hi-
I also use the SGs and have tried the Gs. My only complaint about the SGs are that they tend to leak overnight. SOLUTION!! Take a g liner and put it inside the SG at bedtime. It is a little bulky but my guy didn’t seem to mind and it kept him dry all night! I’ve only had leaks when we are treating diaper rash – Cali Baby Calendula cream (wonderful) seems to provide too much moisture repellant!

Just my 2 cents…

Comment on Megabrat- “bearly” used winter clothes by nkd5

nkd5 — Fri, 19 Sep 2008 21:27:17 +0000

Hey Janine,
Sorry to hear that. I would suggest calling them. I ordered something from them online and it had already been sold. But, they made great efforts to find me something similar and emailed me pictures until I found somthing. I thought they were very accommodating. I am pretty sure it is a small ‘mom and pop’ shop, so you might not get a speedy delivery. I don’t think they are dishonest. Let us know what happens.
Thanks for your comment,
Nicole

Comment on Megabrat- “bearly” used winter clothes by Janine Passero

Janine Passero — Fri, 19 Sep 2008 18:14:37 +0000

Lucky you- I ordered from this website and didn’t receive my merchandise. They were sure quick to take my money though.

Comment on Megabrat- “bearly” used winter clothes by Janine Passero

Janine Passero — Fri, 19 Sep 2008 18:13:31 +0000

Lucky you- I ordered from this website and didn’t receive my merchandise. They were sure quick to take my money though.

Comment on Weaning a toddler while pregnant by Joanne

Joanne — Mon, 08 Sep 2008 02:55:53 +0000

It is good to read these posts. Thanks everyone. I had been feeling like I should wean for quite some time, but really had no idea how to go about it (I don’t think we were ready yet) and then last week, I had a meltdown with lack of sleep. I got some extra sleep in my system and then started changing the way I talked about weaning. I tried not to be wishy washy. We are on the road! My youngster is 18 months old, and I really like the tips you have given about holding the breast. It makes sense and I will try to use it to break the nursing habit at night, although I will leave the bedtime nurse constant. I also want to get pregnant, so this will likely help out a lot! You really go from one cycle of weariness to another, don’t you?

Amazing how you can be so incredibly tired, yet so incredibly amazed and thrilled with life! Have a good one.

Comment on Weaning a toddler while pregnant by tamera

tamera — Sun, 07 Sep 2008 05:35:47 +0000

wow ladies! It is amazing how many of us there are. My boys are 7 months and 27 months. I was 8 months pregnant when I started the emotionally and physically draining weaning. It took more will power than I ever thought I had, and countless 4am prayers. Think of it like giving up smoking, drinking, and all the other things we have to let go of when we are pregnant. It is 80% mental, and 20% physical; I didn’t sleep more than 2 hours a night until I gave birth once we started when he turned 17 months. But, now he can fall asleep just holding the breast, and even at times, all alone. The key is to never give in. NEVER. Once you start, you will cry, and cry, and cry some more. I started off letting him sit next to me on the other side of the boppy pillow, and let him hold the other breast while the baby ate. That only wnt on for the first month or so. He was completely over it after he learned how nasty it tastes with just one try, when he was sick, he wanted to nurse and boy, he said, “blah”. That helped him too. It isn’t the same as they remember. Plus, do not feel so guilty that you wean, it allows them to find their independance, and you get to watch them figure out stuff on their own. It is a way to let go of the dependance WE HAVE TOO.

Comment on Weaning a toddler by mommamarla

mommamarla — Sun, 31 Aug 2008 02:38:00 +0000

momma2g2k I totally hear you. I have so much to say but so little time. My 3 year old (who we worried would never breastfeed) is still way obscessed with “neyney”. We are just down to a little nursing before nap (if it happens) and bedtime and when she first wakes. I hate to admit it to most people although I would never judge anyone for doing it. Luckily my community is very supportive of nursing in general. I never thought I would be nursing this long. But after her medical issues and family medical issues and uncertainty she has been very clingy and neyney a comfort. Night time weaning was terrible- over two weeks of screaming with a few magical spinkles of hope with quiet cuddling. I didn’t want her to think that I was punishing her or rejecting her. I told her that we needed to teach her body to sleep (through the night or getting to sleep) and that all children had to learn to do this-even mentioning a couple of her friends.
In little short pieces of info at a time of course. I let her know that I miss it too but I like to cuddle. Good time to talk about how learning how to do some things can be hard but you can do it. all depending on the age. good luck gotta go

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Comment on Breastfeeding and Sleep by Jennifer

Jennifer — Thu, 28 Aug 2008 14:57:07 +0000

For people to say breastfed babies don’t sleep, I don’t buy it. All 4 of my babies slept and all 4 were breastfed. Sleep is so important to function. We can’t be good parents without sleep!

Jenny
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Comment on Weaning a toddler by nursingmomma

nursingmomma — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 19:28:53 +0000

I am nursing my almost 2 year old daughter and if it were up to her, she would nurse all the time. I night weaned a month ago and I have to agree the absolute most important thing was consistency. My daughter screamed intensely for several nights; she is very strong and vocal in general. We didn’t scold her, simply held her and cuddled her and told her over and over that ” the bubbies are sleeping; they are very tired and they can nurse again when the sun comes up.” I also prepared her in advance; whether or not she understood is a question. It was very helpful to be able to pass her to my husband since he has no bubbies; she was clawing at me intensely. It also helped to wear a tight tank top, not so easy access. I was worried I was being mean, but she would be dandy in the morning. She occasionally still wakes up and asks to nurse at night, but knows she can’t. We always have a sippy cup of water in the bed with us, and I show her where it is every night. She now sometimes wants me to rub her back or tummy to go back to sleep and will even put my hand on her if she wakes up and that is what she wants. I really tried to make sure that night weaning did not decrease her cuddling and contact time, especially by adding daddy to the mix more. It worked and we’re all happier.

Comment on Weaning a toddler by momma2gm2k

momma2gm2k — Fri, 01 Aug 2008 14:53:23 +0000

My daughter is 2 yrs and 8mos, and we are on the SLLOOOWWWW train when it comes to weaning. We’ve gotten it down to only nursing to sleep for naptime and bedtime. Right now we’re working on middle-of-the-night weaning. We co-sleep and she still wakes up 2-5 times a night wanting to nurse back to sleep. She won’t accept a drink of water or milk when I offer it instead. She cries and nuzzles and fondles and tries to get my nipple in her mouth. I tell her “there’s no milkies right now. There will be more tomorrow.” — Mostly true since my milk production is pretty much gone in one breast, and really reduced in the other. But she’s not satisfied with that answer. Eventually I can cuddle and sing her to sleep. It’s such a sad thing for her (and me!) right now. When I tell her that we’re nursing less because she’s becoming a big girl, she says “No Mommy, I’m a little girl.” I need some answers that work when she asks “WHY can’t I nurse Mommy?” It’s a legitimate question, and I don’t want to make up stories or put yucky tasting substances (vinegar, lemon juice) on my nipples to discourage her. I would feel like I was being dishonest with her. She’s a pretty bright kid and expects some real answers. I would LOVE some suggestions!!!

Comment on Weaning a toddler by ep

ep — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 13:50:30 +0000

I’m trying to wean my 21 month old because I’m pregnant (9 weeks) and had a miscarriage earlier this year, which even though people say was unrelated to the nursing I still worry. Anyway, so far it is soooo hard. My daughter likes to nurse for comfort at bedtime, during the night and anytime I’d let her. Any advice would be welcome.

Comment on Weaning a toddler by playing pretend by Rebecca

Rebecca — Sat, 19 Jul 2008 04:31:21 +0000

Thank you so much for blogging about this experience. I came across your blog by searching “weaning toddler”. I’m actually at about the same point you were: I sadly needed to wean my 2.5 year old (to get baby #2 on the way) from her nap nursings, but I’ve been terrified of losing that personal time and her losing the sleep she so desperately needs. (She’s VERY sensitive to sleep changes, didn’t sleep through the night regularly until only the past few months, even though I haven’t nursed her at night for at least a year if not much longer.) I’ll just have to try this tomorrow. Thanks again for sharing your “ah-ha!” moment!

Comment on Weaning a toddler by playing pretend by nkd5

nkd5 — Thu, 17 Jul 2008 16:31:02 +0000

Hi Jane,
Thanks for your comment.
My son would have never self-weaned, he loved it too and in fact is still ‘pretending’ to nurse (6 months after I stopped nursing him). There are some good sources about how to deal with unsupportive family members (http://www.kellymom.net/bf/criticism.html)- but if your husband is not willing to learn all the benefits of breastfeeding and even extended breastfeeding, then it seems that he is not willing to change his mind.

Weaning was a very difficult thing to navigate, very emotional, it would have been extremely stressful for me if my husband was not supportive. One thing that your doctor left out- is that you will always remember it too. You need to feel good about the way this beautiful, fleeting, part of your relationship with your son, ends.

Also, keep in mind that if you are both waking up 2-3 times through the night, you are not getting enough rest, which can have significant impacts on your mood, stress level and general daily functions.

Comment on Weaning a toddler by nkd5

nkd5 — Thu, 17 Jul 2008 15:59:04 +0000

Hi Cynthia,
Thanks for your comment. I found it very difficult to stop the night feeding, and we had several false starts and plenty of tears (but it only lasted 2-3 days). I also did not mind nursing him to bed at night and that eventually became the only nursing in a 24 hour period. I found the best way for me to get my son to stop nursing at nap and in the morning was to explain to him, in a positive and friendly way, that he couldn’t have milk now b/c he could have it before bed and then I would often offer an alternative, like holding my hand very tightly. He wasn’t thrilled about it, but he got it. After a few days of being consistent, it was much easier for him. And he did start sleeping through the night very soon after, the first full night of sleep we all had in about 22 months!

Once I night weaned, my period came back after a month or two (22 months after his birth). Trying to conceive was a big incentive for me to cut back breastfeeding. I very much wanted to get my period back and start trying for a second child. I also told myself that my son would much prefer a sibling than a few more months of breastfeeding (I am 36 so feel like my clock is ticking). I know plenty of women conceive while breastfeeding- but my body was slow to get regular again.

As far as finding a ‘happy medium’ with your husband I would suggest reading this post on Kellymom:

http://www.kellymom.com/bf/criticism.html

I never had to deal with this issue myself, but I would imagine that it could cause a lot of stress on a relationship. I do not know how long I would have kept nursing without my husbands support. Also, keep in mind that if you are both waking up 2-3 times through the night, you are not getting enough rest, which can have significant impacts on your mood, stress level and general daily functions.

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Comment on Weaning a toddler by playing pretend by jane Lalonde

jane Lalonde — Wed, 16 Jul 2008 06:12:50 +0000

I am 44. My son Charlie is my second child. He is 18 months and still nursing. He loves it so much that he squels with delight. He nurses at night (sometimes 2 or 3 times during the night) then a few more times during the day. I use my breast to put him to sleep, so I cannot go out on dates with my husband much. I keep waiting for him to self wean, like my daughter did at 15 months. I love it, mind you. But my husband is very impatient. In fact he is hostile about it. He thinks I am babying him and there is no value in it. He won’t read the research I have. I am torn between this gentle child who is not ready to wean and a husband who is demanding I wean. Any one have advice for me? My doctor said, your husband will remember this for a long time, and your child will never remember it. I felt like this respone was too clinical. Any thoughts?

Comment on Weaning a toddler by Cynthia

Cynthia — Wed, 16 Jul 2008 01:34:08 +0000

My husband and I are unfortunately conflicted about when to wean our toddler. Our 19 month old still nurses at bedtime and if he wakes up in the middle of the night. More often than not he wakes up once or twice. I’d like to eliminate those feedings but don’t mind nursing him at bedtime until he’s at least two. My husband thinks I’m crazy for still nursing him at all. I’m just not sure how to handle what I think is right – without upsetting my husband. We also would like another child – but my cycle is all over the place probably since I’m still nursing. Oh I wish stopping were easier on my son and I… if I refuse it’s hours of screaming.

Comment on Klean Kanteen Coupon code- 20% off by Kay

Kay — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 15:26:16 +0000

Correction to my prior comment…the link to the article about Klean Kanteens is: http://mommysupershopper.com/?p=33

Comment on Timeout tales by nkd5

nkd5 — Mon, 30 Jun 2008 23:16:37 +0000

I think the part in the article about staying calm is so important. A very good friend, and parent that I often try to emulate, gave me some great parenting advice. He said he always tries to keep the same tone and stay calm. That way the situation doesn’t escalate. If their child is not listening to them they will take the child aside and talk about it privately. I think it is important that the child doesn’t feel humiliated or embarrassed.

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